Hello beautiful people..! Last time we talked about the five love languages and the need for us to cut our partners some slack. This week, on Pillow Talks we are going to share on how
to know your love language but before we delve into that I will like to request you dearest reader not to limit this topic to your love relationship ( love life) only but to relate it to all your relationships.
Being human beings one can’t escape having one form of relationship or the other. Now here comes the juicy part; now that you know what all the love languages entails, odds are most if not all these love language resonates with you but when it comes to selecting just one, focus on which aspect you find most important to you.
It centres around what you appreciate most when your current or past partner tried to do something nice to you. Like what made you feel loved or which behaviour does not mean that much to you..?
If you are single use your new found knowledge to strengthen your connections with loved ones. It can serve as a guide when you are looking for a partner.
If you are in a relationship, try to find out your partner’s love language and you can also ask them straight-up what makes them all fuzzy.
Remember no matter how compatible you and your partner are, you may not speak the same love language. Knowing your partner’s love language goes a long way in strengthening your relationship. Common mistake people make is giving their partner what they themselves need, for instance if their love language is receiving gifts they tend to buy gifts for their partner thinking they are showing love which their partner might prefer quality time rather gifts.
Lastly, I will advise you to explore yourself which will give you better insights on what you need from the people who love you…!
Looking forward to receiving feedbacks from you, if you have comments.