Don’t neglect the men, boys deserve attention …
Often times the boy child is neglected making him to learn and discover things by adventure.
This has landed some in prison, sent some to their early graves while others have made irredeemable mistakes.
While deliberate efforts are made to teach the girl child about home building and her sexuality, the boys are thought how to make money and be hardworking. Their biological growth are for them to discover by their self or from their friends. While the aspect of home building is an entire ball game or puzzle you have to solve when you get there.
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How many father’s informed their sons about the biological changes they would experience prior to puberty? There’s an obvious gap in information between the older and the younger generation.
Agreed, not everyone had the privilege of having a Father or the love of a Father, Men fellowship group in churches can deliberately breach this gap by organizing programs and conferences that target boys at every stage of their development until they become Men.
Those days, there used to be Bachelor’s Eve for the Grooms to be where father’s talk to son’s. Today we’re beginning to have Grooms shower which like the bridal shower deals with fantasy more than the deep realities that awaits them in marriage.
Finally, it is important that you establish a good relationship with your son’s, so that impacting their lives would be easy.
It’s up to you.
