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The society, relationship books/articles have socialized us into thinking that men don’t need love, all they need is respect. But come to thinking of it are men not also human? Don’t they have flesh and blood?
Hey lady! Quit the he will take me for granted mentality or he might disrespect me if he knows that I love him. Ladies stop expecting him to treat you like a queen when you treat him like a robot, everyone with a pulse needs love and also needs to be shown that love.
In every man there is a boy who wants to play and be loved, don’t always be a taker be a giver too. Knowing his love language will help you a great deal in finding out how best to make him feel loved, tell him how much you love him and how much you appreciate him, you aren’t doing him a favour by dating him darling neither is he.
Make life simple! Dear ladies, let me get a little raw here; unconsciously or unconsciously you make your man pay for s*x, that’s right! You read it right. How? Let me tell you how, most times you ask him for money right after you had s*x. Most of you think you are doing him a favour or sometimes you think you are showing him love or gratitude. Men differentiate between love and s*x! Do yourself a favour by finding out how best to show him you care.
And to our gentle men, some of you think you’ve conquered a lady whenever she shows you she cares, well…. Here is my take on this perception of yours; whenever a man thinks he has conquered a woman because he realized that she is ‘ madly in love’ with him, that man is yet to mature. Here is a secret….. A lady can love you to the moon and back and the same lady can stop feeling that same love if she decides to.
Don’t hurt your woman over and over again because you are slowly teaching how to live without you. Don’t take her feelings for granted! My people communication is key in every relationship, ask married couples.
Note I said communication, I didn’t say talking. Appreciate your woman, tell her how much she means to you because guys too have this mentality that if I show her too much that I care she will take me for granted.
In a nutshell, appreciate each other, show each other how much you care and let go of your ego.
