The Stockholm Ex
By Keziah Yusuf
Hello my beautiful people, welcome to Pillow Talks with Keziah. Did you miss me? Cause I’ve missed you so much… I have a very juicy gist for us today and based on my research, we’ve all been through this… Stockholm
Let’s talk about the Stockholm ex. Did I hear someone asking, if I’m serious?? Sure I am dead serious.. We’ve all gone through the ex stockholm a point in our lives; in fact, others are still going through it. Some Married Couples still have an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend who wouldn’t mind being the lover.
Take a look around and you will find out that this ex stockholm seems to be very rampant nowadays.
Let me tell you a short interesting story that happened somewhere in the Jewel in the Savannah, there was this young lady whose boyfriend broke up with her because she was not up to his standards; she doesn’t deck herself up, has no job and all the rest…. She picked up the pieces and moved on, she found someone who stood by her, got a job and was living the good life.
Her boyfriend decided to engage her and wedding preparation began then boom, guess what? You are right, the ex came back with a ring; asking her to marry him.
A question to the ladies; what would you do if you were in her shoes? Please do write your comments below or reach to me on yusufkeziah01@gmail.com . And to guys; does he really love her?
Please do reach out too. Personally, I wouldn’t even look at him because to me he never loved me and I don’t think he is God’s chosen husband for me. I believe that whatever God has in store for me, no Jupiter on earth will be able to change the narrative.
Back to our case study; the lady became confused because she still love her ex so she decided to confide in an elderly woman whom she respect and who knew everything that happened.
She sought for her advice and the woman was angry because she was even contemplating whether or not she should get back with her ex. She advised her stick with her fiancé and should not even think of leaving him, she heeded her advice and got married.
So what am I trying to say? Having an ex is something none of us will able to run from but how we handle it is what counts.
I remember when I was in my teenage age, I was made to believe that every guy I break up with goes with a piece of my heart…. Funny isn’t it? But that is really not the case. Yes some people would still have feelings for their ex but that largely depends on their mind-set and the way the relationship ended.
In a nutshell, when a relationship is really over and you’ve moved on then there is a need for you to burn that breach. That doesn’t mean that you should become enemies with your ex but relationship should be defined.
You can’t say you have nothing going on but you still buy gifts for your ex that has emotional attachment or romantic gifts. Like I said, it is not a crime to remain friends with your ex but what you do and how you do things with your ex is what matters.
Every time you want to do something for your ex, have plans or whatever it is, ask yourself this question; would i it be alright for my current partner to do what about to do with my ex? And i encourage you to go ahead if you feel there is nothing wrong in it as long as your conscience doesn’t prick you .
Remain blessed. Kayzee cares
