Narcissistic behaviour: Emerging trend, how many children feel alone across homes in many societies
Narcissistic behaviour; a trend with the fastest uprising yet treated with laxity. In modern day, family narcissistic behaviour has eaten deep in family dynamics causing trauma and pain to youths. It usually starts at younger age and then become hewn till they older.
Narcissistic behaviour is a negative complete perceived control of peoples life without letting them form their own and recognize themselves.
It could be either or both parents making their wards that is either their kids or those put under their care to live their lives to foot their needs and also please them. This has a damaging effect because it makes them give no sense of self, creates heightened low self esteem/worth, causes depression and makes such kids feel isolated.
People that exhibit narcissistic trends imbibed it via poor family upbringing, unsorted childhood trauma, a spirit of unforgiveness that permeated their being which has made them selfish.
This zeal for control, dominance makes them in validate other peoples feelings and make themselves a top priority at the detriment of others. A father, a mother, a boss, a spiritual leader can be a narcissistic being.
But we are concentrating on Family trends..
In this setting the negative outcome can turn generational, as children who don’t practice strength of will must definitely imbibe same characteristics and pass the trend. But the few who can withstand this great fight with their frail minds will undergo torturous life, withheld benefits, being treated as a nobody.
They lack emotional support,no one to Bare their heart to, confide in…
Its that hurting for someone who chooses not to imbibe such behavioural patterns because some of their own siblings can form such as an unformidable force to frustrate them and thus they feel alone.
Anytime they confide in such siblings whatever they say is manipulated and used against them to make sure their parents see such frail children as Bad eggs or victims.
Fruits of narcissism can be divided into two :
- The Golden child
- The Victim
- The Golden child
As perceived Gold is highly valued and not tossed anyhow..
This in singular if it comprises one child or these in either case of 2 or more..
Are children who adore narcissistic parents, they behave like them, encourage whatever they do good or bad, some of them in most cases are aware that things aren’t going well..but their quest to be the most loved, favoured and praised children mask the need to stand against wrong norms/trends, they practice manipulative traits ,acts as negative snitch, getting positive comments and giving negative feedback to ruthlessly deal with the frail victims. - The Victims; are sufferers in this dynamics
Every care they receive is based on carrying the family burden, they are thought that the family gave them life and sense of belonging. So, they wire all focus on serving the family needs. Whenever they voice out about wrong patterns, they are treated with scorn, called names, demeans and restricted of rights and privileges. They grow up alone fighting life battles, choosing the life they feel appropriate and surmounting challenges.
most Victims see the ripple effects of narcissism and develop a strength of will never to continue. This Negative trends.
So, my dear readers, choose the right trends.
I call single hood ” a gift”
Why it makes you work on a loopholes concerning characters, habits and mindset.
Don’t overlook this stage.. Be that father, be that mother, be that individual that is a proponent of “Live and Let other’s Live..
And so the main steps to conquering Narcissistic behavior are:
- Be Assertive; Have a good active conscience and discern correctly.
- Observe and identify Such Trends;Watch,do a self survey of yourself and you relate with others
- List such traits with intentionality; with deep clarity, sincerity and firm conviction outline those evil traits.
- Expunge;try and much as possible to desist from such behavioral trends.
- Lastly, create awareness and let people be wary of such traits and tell them the downsides of such behavioral trends in the long run..
Narcissistic behaviour is real, let us not delve into such traits as the fruits it yields in long run is drastic.
